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Sat Jul 5
maymay:

kagome-mizuno:

kagome-mizuno:

So, i’m really digging maymay’s culture-hack Douchey Dom meme. This is the one i created, and based off a true story. Basically, anything that broke my limits or was abusive, that i called out on (which was sadly rare, because i was browbeaten by the fucker) was met with the top line. i just kept digging and digging for why this would be the idiot’s worldview, and the bottom line is the only thing i could find (and thus why i hate those books with a passion).
Of course, it doesn’t match the rape that occurred. When called out on THAT, i got “you never said it was a limit!” Except i literally did, the very first day we were together, a YEAR before the rape. In fact, the very fact that the fucker knew it was a limit is why they did it to me in my sleep.

Aaaand turns out there was one created that perfectly explains the fucker’s worldview:

maymay:

kagome-mizuno:

kagome-mizuno:

So, i’m really digging maymay’s culture-hack Douchey Dom meme. This is the one i created, and based off a true story. Basically, anything that broke my limits or was abusive, that i called out on (which was sadly rare, because i was browbeaten by the fucker) was met with the top line. i just kept digging and digging for why this would be the idiot’s worldview, and the bottom line is the only thing i could find (and thus why i hate those books with a passion).

Of course, it doesn’t match the rape that occurred. When called out on THAT, i got “you never said it was a limit!” Except i literally did, the very first day we were together, a YEAR before the rape. In fact, the very fact that the fucker knew it was a limit is why they did it to me in my sleep.

Aaaand turns out there was one created that perfectly explains the fucker’s worldview:

EVERYONE HAS RAPE FANTASIES AND NO ONE BATS AN EYE … POINT OUT BDSM EROTICIZES RAPE AND EVERYONE LOSES THEIR MINDS

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Fri Jul 4

maymay:

douchey-dominant:

blucandycrush:

I think I’m a fan of incest. Or age play, I can’t tell which. I read incest stories, and ‘incest’ videos and god I get so wet, especially father/daughter or mom/daughter incest, it’s the power over the innocent child perverted to serve their lusts that turn me on. The thought of having a daddy or mommy, of playing out being a little girl making mommy or daddy happy? Just, wow. Especially if he or she is physically bigger and stronger than me. But I don’t know if it’s incest or age play that I want.

THINKS INCEST IS "DISGUSTING" … GETS HARD WHEN YOU CALL HIM "DADDY"

Incest? Age play? Meh, what’s the difference?

Ever notice how “daddy/girl” is somehow “not incest” to BDSM’ers? As though that’s its own category of thing. There’s even a whole thread on FetLife asking where to “draw the line” for the community as a whole, and the suggestion by the site admins is to draw the line at “incest.”

You know what’s NOT included in that umbrella, though? Daddy/girl play.

Because that’s not the same thing as “incest play.” Y’know, the same way that “BDSM is not abuse.” Obviously. #KinkLogic

smh

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So apparently all dominants want to look like submissives

maymay:

I’ve been avoiding blogs by Dominant-identified people for a while. But I’ve recently started looking for "Douchey Dom" meme material, so I’m back there. (Also, I think it’s awesome that the thing that finally got me to look at dominant-themed blogs again is seeking material to mock them with.) And one thing I’ve noticed is that in virtually every case where the profile is a picture of a human(-oid), the profile pic depicts a submissive.

So, to clarify:

  • If you’re a Dominant-identified blogger, you’re evidently likely to have a picture of a submissive’s ass or something as your profile pic.
  • And if you’re a Submissive-identified blogger, you’re evidently likely to have a picture of a submissive’s ass or something as your profile pic.

Doesn’t that strike anyone else as kinda weird? Especially for a community of people who are trying so hard to resist mainstream notions of beauty and objectification.

Oh. Wait.

SO SECURE IN HIS DOMINANCE … HE ACTUALLY USES A PICTURE OF HIMSELF AS HIS AVATAR

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douchey-dominant:

ace-pervert:

douchey-dominant:

ace-pervert:

kinksterbullshit:

why do people say “i know plenty of subs & doms who are happy and in love!” as if that, i dunno, like saves the millions of women and children trafficked into sex slavery

just wondering

Because the two are completely unrelated to one another.

THINKS HE'S POST-RACIAL … SPENDS HIS SATURDAY NIGHT AT  SLAVE AUCTION

Cute , but I don’t believe that our society is post racial yet , nor do I support slavery.
I do however believe in bdsm as long as it follows the SSC standard , in other words , it has to be safe , sane, consensual, and all those involved have to be older than 18 years .

SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL … UNTIL YOU SAY NO

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douchey-dominant:

glimpseofyouth:

I’m analyzing women and their images in history.

douchey-dominant:

glimpseofyouth:

I’m analyzing women and their images in history.

ISLAMOPHOBE … WANTS A "HAREM"

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douchey-dominant:

contemplative-domination:

Less kvetching, more fetching.
Male, Married, 30s.
Torn between a healthy belief in feminism and a desire to objectify. Okay, not really that torn.

"TORN BETWEEN BELIEF IN FEMINISM AND DESIRE TO OBJECTIFY … OKAY, NOT REALLY THAT TORN"

douchey-dominant:

contemplative-domination:

Less kvetching, more fetching.

Male, Married, 30s.

Torn between a healthy belief in feminism and a desire to objectify. Okay, not really that torn.

"TORN BETWEEN BELIEF IN FEMINISM AND DESIRE TO OBJECTIFY … OKAY, NOT REALLY THAT TORN"

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maymay:

notquitemyagony:

notfuckingcishet:

Ok last one of the Doucheydom meme. 

Could someone elaborate on this/give examples? Specifically on what ‘eroticizing rape culture’ means/looks like? (I’m not arguing or defending, I’m genuinely having trouble understanding and would like to).

"Eroticizing rape culture" means sexualizing coercive sexual tropes that occur in your cultural context. For example, if you live in a society where it’s common to catcall women on the street or grope women’s bodies on the train (like, say, every country on Earth that has streets or trains), then "eroticizing rape culture" often looks like calling your sexual partner the same sorts of words that people use to catcall women, or grabbing their bodies in the same places and from the same angles as though you were on a train.
There’s nothing wrong with using words that turn you and your partner on, or feeling your sweetie up in ways that feel good to the two of you, of course, and no one is saying that there is. Not even dyed-in-the-wool hardcore anti-kink radfems are saying that. (So don’t believe the hype from people who will tell you that that’s what folks are saying when they say “eroticizing rape culture.”)
What people (like me) ARE saying is that we’ve observed a commonality in the ways that people engage in sexual behavior and signalling. Further, we’re observing that this commonality is shared among a virtually impossible majority of otherwise extremely different individuals. And we’re suggesting that this isn’t actually a mystery.
We’re saying that the reason many people (like me) find the sorts of things that are reminiscent of, say, catcalling and groping people on the train sexy in the first place is related to the ways in which we were acculturated by our particular culture’s sexual messaging. In other words, a lot of people find coercive sexual tropes arousing because our culture eroticizes rape.
The Douchey Dom meme you asked about, shown above, illustrates how the BDSM subculture goes one step further. Beyond merely eroticizing rape, it eroticizes the eroticization of rape. It’s not just that “rape is sexy.” What’s sexy, in BDSM, is finding rape sexy. In fact, the Douchey Dom meme was conceived to point out the absurdity of “celebrating gay rights” by eroticizing non-consensual imprisonment—a torture endured by many LGBT people to this day.
Of course, that’s not how BDSM’ers talk about what they’re doing, because nobody other than rapists thinks “finding rape sexy” is actually sexy. So the Douchey Dom meme is pointing out both that there is a LOT of cultural overlap between the BDSM subculture and the mainstream—more than BDSM’ers will admit to—and also pointing out that the set of people defined as “rapists” differs depending on who you are. BDSM’ers think the Douchey Dom represents “those bad doms, not us good doms,” whereas other people think the Douchey Dom represents, well, BDSM’ers.

maymay:

notquitemyagony:

notfuckingcishet:

Ok last one of the Doucheydom meme. 

Could someone elaborate on this/give examples? Specifically on what ‘eroticizing rape culture’ means/looks like? (I’m not arguing or defending, I’m genuinely having trouble understanding and would like to).

"Eroticizing rape culture" means sexualizing coercive sexual tropes that occur in your cultural context. For example, if you live in a society where it’s common to catcall women on the street or grope women’s bodies on the train (like, say, every country on Earth that has streets or trains), then "eroticizing rape culture" often looks like calling your sexual partner the same sorts of words that people use to catcall women, or grabbing their bodies in the same places and from the same angles as though you were on a train.

There’s nothing wrong with using words that turn you and your partner on, or feeling your sweetie up in ways that feel good to the two of you, of course, and no one is saying that there is. Not even dyed-in-the-wool hardcore anti-kink radfems are saying that. (So don’t believe the hype from people who will tell you that that’s what folks are saying when they say “eroticizing rape culture.”)

What people (like me) ARE saying is that we’ve observed a commonality in the ways that people engage in sexual behavior and signalling. Further, we’re observing that this commonality is shared among a virtually impossible majority of otherwise extremely different individuals. And we’re suggesting that this isn’t actually a mystery.

We’re saying that the reason many people (like me) find the sorts of things that are reminiscent of, say, catcalling and groping people on the train sexy in the first place is related to the ways in which we were acculturated by our particular culture’s sexual messaging. In other words, a lot of people find coercive sexual tropes arousing because our culture eroticizes rape.

The Douchey Dom meme you asked about, shown above, illustrates how the BDSM subculture goes one step further. Beyond merely eroticizing rape, it eroticizes the eroticization of rape. It’s not just that “rape is sexy.” What’s sexy, in BDSM, is finding rape sexy. In fact, the Douchey Dom meme was conceived to point out the absurdity of “celebrating gay rights” by eroticizing non-consensual imprisonment—a torture endured by many LGBT people to this day.

Of course, that’s not how BDSM’ers talk about what they’re doing, because nobody other than rapists thinks “finding rape sexy” is actually sexy. So the Douchey Dom meme is pointing out both that there is a LOT of cultural overlap between the BDSM subculture and the mainstream—more than BDSM’ers will admit to—and also pointing out that the set of people defined as “rapists” differs depending on who you are. BDSM’ers think the Douchey Dom represents “those bad doms, not us good doms,” whereas other people think the Douchey Dom represents, well, BDSM’ers.

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maymay:

My new “Douchey Dom" faves.

HAS THREE COLLARED SUBMISSIVES … “SINGLE” ON DATING SITES

FAVORITE MOVIE: SECRETARY … FAVORITE GIRLFRIEND: SECRETARY

SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL … UNTIL YOU SAY NO

MY MILKSHAKE BRINGS ALL THE … EASILY DISCREDITABLE WITNESSES TO THE YARD

THAT WASN’T “RAPE” … IT WAS “PUSHING HER LIMITS”

SUBMISSIVE WOMAN? … YOU MEAN, LIKE, ASIAN?

BDSM CLUB? … YOU MEAN THE CONSEQUENCE FREE ZONE?

CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT … YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU TELL HER IT WAS HER IDEA

Now with moar Tumblr.

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Thu Jul 3
notfuckingcishet:

Ok last one of the Doucheydom meme. 

notfuckingcishet:

Ok last one of the Doucheydom meme. 

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notfuckingcishet:

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notfuckingcishet:

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