A smiling woman bites the lip of a smiling man while holding her hand over his eyes as they embrace.
This photograph was suggested by Miss Calico, who said, “I like the smiles on their faces (his dimples!), and the passion in their kiss. It makes the way she is biting his lip and covering his eyes seem uncontrived, like a spontaneous expression of their attraction to each other.”
Part of me just wants to say, “Yeah, what Calico said,” and call it done. The other part of me wants to take the opportunity to remark on the importance of being confidently self-expressed. Who says submissive men can’t or shouldn’t fuck their beloved dominant partners? Who says jeans and a t-shirt isn’t fetish wear? Who says women are inherently better than men, or vice versa? Who says men have more rights than women?
When someone starts talking about a One True Way, remember that it’s nothing other than the one true way that works for them. Don’t let the self-righteousness of others stop you from finding your own true ways.

