A shirtless man looks into the camera, his wrists tied together with black ribbon.
I’m not certain whether this man looks like he’s trying to be defiant, mischievous, or something else entirely. Thankfully, there is just enough hint of a smile in his expression to make me comfortable posting this. If I had to hazard a guess, I’d imagine he’s trying to initiate play of some sort.
Initiating play, a scene, or simply some form of sex isn’t actually something I’m very good at; there are many negative connotations I’ve associated with actively pursuing sexual encounters in this way. However, it’s important to remember that pursuing a partner for sex and initiating sex with a partner are two distinct things. For a while, I’ve been trying my damnedest to learn how to submissively initiate play in ways that are satisfying for a dominant partner as well as for myself because (despite some popular beliefs) submissiveness has little to do with passivity.
(via pornotumble)

