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“ The BDSM Scene is a school that teaches people to gaslight themselves when it comes to what bottoms’ consent feels like.
See also:
- What does consent feel like?
- National BDSM organization’s own survey admits consent crisis in BDSM Scene
- Submissive people don’t need dominants. Period.
- Never, ever assume you need permission from a dominant person to speak to a submissive person.
- The BDSM Scene is an abusive social institution. Let their world burn (they’re doing it already)
- School is prison.
(via maymay)
Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse in which false information is presented with the intent of making a victim doubt his or her own memory, perception and sanity. Instances may range simply from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred, up to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim.