Bound seated to a chain outdoors on a wooden deck, a naked young man is gagged and looks at the camera with a certain pleading expression on his face.
Derek Isme writes to us with this photograph to say, “This picture has a lot of the elements that I really like—an outdoor scene, no obvious porn paraphernalia, attractive guy, etc. (The only thing missing is an erection.)” The lack of obvious porn paraphernalia is striking to me as well, and definitely makes this a better picture than most.
Interestingly, though, I actually like this man’s lack of an erection. There are numerous situations when I play in which I am not immediately sexually aroused, and yet these scenes are still exceptionally fun. Sometimes people, and often especially men, can get too caught up in issues of physical appearance or performance to enjoy themselves, which is sadly missing a big chunk of the point of freely and unapologetically expressing oneself sexually.

